alright, i got my new parts,assembled it. fixed it around 20 times so that it wont leak and then finished the circuit.
i got high voltage at ~15W input. 15Volts / 1 Amp. Every minute or so the capacitor would discharge/spark through the air, i have to isolate the connector panels better. but anyway, i should have had over 10.000Volts, because the gap it sparked over was around 1cm. No gas...
In the future I'll try to regulate the voltage to the 18V needed for Full HV with the flybacks, well i'll see. i also cannot know if both sides charge right, because i do not own a hv probe. i'll play around with voltage and frequency tomorrow.
so far disappointing