TS, i hope you are wrong, in the sense that, like i was pointing, probably your feedback circuit is not rejecting non resonant signals...i mean its locking into the frequency itself sending to the vic... it will behave like if no signal was applied to the pin 14 and goes toward the lowest frequency of the vco...
as i also pointed before you might be varying the pot resistor r1 (pin 11) instead of r2 (pin 12)... r1 mess around with the center frequency broadening and narrowing the bandwidth, while r2 would only changes the off set letting you chose an R1 for a more or less fix and limited bandwidth... this is handy while trying to reject signals...
i just made a mod in the feed back circuit...
the diagram by tony was correct in the end except by the position of the capacitor... it should be between the 5 v and the non inverting input of the opamp, of course having that 10k resistor therebetween... lowering the 100k resistor and or raising the vdd applied increase the signal rejection.. your 5k resistor helped here, but probably is not enough specially if in your circuit that capacitor is at wrong position... because this would turn off the rejection of the opamp and would become only an amplifier, another drawback is the led indicating while no pulse present since the non inverting will be at higher potential than the inverting input...
I made a simulation and it works it is able to reject non resonant signals... of course the signal should be in the tens to hundreds of milivolts range
It hapens that when you apply a lower frequency than that of resonance the current applied oscillates, this oscillation has a stronger magnitude than the applied voltage when close to resonance so the limit is reached and the feedback circuit pick up the signal...
regards