All right guys all caught up, my head hurts after all that reading.
Please post the latest schematic of your setup, I see the continued problem of mosfets, IGBT's, and transistors failing.
( I warn you I was never that great with transistors, but mosfets and IGBT's - bring them on!)
At resonance, parallel, your driving voltage will jump by PIE, so input X 3.14159 = mosfet drain source rating min. The more Rds(on) you have the larger the heat sink needed.